Being Gay is so much more than what we have accepted it to be. Why do we continue to allow ourselves to be bamboozled by the lgbTQia+ Rainbow Cult that has impressed upon our minds that being gay means we must be sex-aholics, always on the prowl for hookups, bustin' nuts and "gettin' off"?!?!?!
Sadly, it is NOT UNCOMMON for homosexual men, or other men who find themselves wanting to "use" gay men as a "sex tool/toy" to find themselves enveloped in sex/dating apps, websites and "cruising" areas known for random sexual encounters. With Grindr and all of the hookup apps, sites and cruising places that exist, there is no wonder that homosexuals have been stigmatized/labeled as sexual predators.
If you won't see that you've been sexualized and used to further a much darker agenda, then at least get a room! Stop using the public bathrooms, parks, trails, parking lots, etc... for your predatorial sexual endeavors.
How did we get here? A very long time ago the church launched an attack on same-sex attracted individuals and labeled them as "unnatural", "abominations" and "freaks", then society and culture joined in the assault and guilted, shamed & condemned homosexuality for centuries. It's even worse knowing that we (homosexuals/gays) continue to give all of them the ammunition to continue to do so.
Gay men, we are so much more than sexual encounters, NSA, ANON, "gettin' off" or random hook-ups! If you cannot find the Peace & Joy in cherishing & respecting your body by having morals & values, then you should probably seek some much needed help with your strongholds and/or addictions, issues, problems.
I was once addicted to sex, especially random sex with random and/or multiple partners, so I get it and I understand the thrill or "rush", but it doesn't get easier or better, it only gets worse and it goes deeper and darker than you can ever imagine. Eventually, you will have forsaken even your own body and become desensitized to Love, Joy, Peace, Morality & Values and you will not recognize your own worth!
When gyms or any businesses have to put up signage in the bathrooms, men's locker rooms, shower areas, etc... stating to "NOT HAVE SEX ON THE PREMISES" there is something so wrong with what we have become as a people. It is disgusting, not cute or fun.
There are men that are naturally attracted to other men; homosexuals. And there are also men that are NOT naturally attracted to other men but they have went against their own nature (heterosexuality) due to the lusts of their flesh and engage in homosexual sex just to satisfy the lusts of their own flesh.
Gay men, you are being used by the above mentioned men. These men have wives, girl-friends & families... they are not truly interested in you, but only in what you can do for them. Once they're done, you are nothing to them and many are repulsed by you afterwards because they know they are doing something that is not a part of their innate design, but only acting on the lusts of their flesh. Understand?
See, there's a huge difference on what is natural and unnatural for each of us. In The Scripture (Romans 1 & Romans 11) there is a very distinct use of the words natural (physin) and unnatural (para-physin)...
Let's look at that quickly...
Significant to Paul’s discussion in Romans 1:27 is the fact that these "unclean" Gentiles exchanged that which was "natural" for them (physin - in the Greek text), for something "unnatural" (para physin).
According to Romans 11:24, Paul says that GOD Almighty acts in an "unnatural" way, (para physin), to accept the Gentiles into the fold.
"Unnatural" in these passages does not refer to a violation of the so-called "laws of nature", but it rather implies action contradicting one’s own innate nature.
In view of this, we should observe that it is "unnatural" (para physin) for a person today that is same-sex attracted to attempt living in a heterosexual lifestyle or relationship.
The message here... The Scripture doesn't condemn same-sex attraction or same-sex relationships any more than it condemns opposite-sex attraction or opposite-sex relationships... but we have a moral compass by which we must walk.
I know that the assault launched on same-sex attracted individuals caused them to run off and form their own group (cult) that rebelled against everything good, natural and moral. I also know that same-sex attracted individuals were then forced into hiding. It is this going into hiding that began the secretive sexual encounters in public bathrooms, parks, wooded areas, etc... being gay became some type of dark dirty secret. It became something that was based on sexual encounters and satisfying the lusts of the flesh.
It is very possible to be in a monogamous relationship and bring Glory to GOD by walking in The Way, living morally and righteously... and it doesn't matter if that is a same-sex couple or an opposite-sex couple.
The low self worth must stop. Respect yourself and your body. Sex is supposed to be beautiful and meaningful, not random and dangerous.
Just sayin... <3 with #LOVE <3
Sadly, it is NOT UNCOMMON for homosexual men, or other men who find themselves wanting to "use" gay men as a "sex tool/toy" to find themselves enveloped in sex/dating apps, websites and "cruising" areas known for random sexual encounters. With Grindr and all of the hookup apps, sites and cruising places that exist, there is no wonder that homosexuals have been stigmatized/labeled as sexual predators.
If you won't see that you've been sexualized and used to further a much darker agenda, then at least get a room! Stop using the public bathrooms, parks, trails, parking lots, etc... for your predatorial sexual endeavors.
How did we get here? A very long time ago the church launched an attack on same-sex attracted individuals and labeled them as "unnatural", "abominations" and "freaks", then society and culture joined in the assault and guilted, shamed & condemned homosexuality for centuries. It's even worse knowing that we (homosexuals/gays) continue to give all of them the ammunition to continue to do so.
Gay men, we are so much more than sexual encounters, NSA, ANON, "gettin' off" or random hook-ups! If you cannot find the Peace & Joy in cherishing & respecting your body by having morals & values, then you should probably seek some much needed help with your strongholds and/or addictions, issues, problems.
I was once addicted to sex, especially random sex with random and/or multiple partners, so I get it and I understand the thrill or "rush", but it doesn't get easier or better, it only gets worse and it goes deeper and darker than you can ever imagine. Eventually, you will have forsaken even your own body and become desensitized to Love, Joy, Peace, Morality & Values and you will not recognize your own worth!
When gyms or any businesses have to put up signage in the bathrooms, men's locker rooms, shower areas, etc... stating to "NOT HAVE SEX ON THE PREMISES" there is something so wrong with what we have become as a people. It is disgusting, not cute or fun.
There are men that are naturally attracted to other men; homosexuals. And there are also men that are NOT naturally attracted to other men but they have went against their own nature (heterosexuality) due to the lusts of their flesh and engage in homosexual sex just to satisfy the lusts of their own flesh.
Gay men, you are being used by the above mentioned men. These men have wives, girl-friends & families... they are not truly interested in you, but only in what you can do for them. Once they're done, you are nothing to them and many are repulsed by you afterwards because they know they are doing something that is not a part of their innate design, but only acting on the lusts of their flesh. Understand?
See, there's a huge difference on what is natural and unnatural for each of us. In The Scripture (Romans 1 & Romans 11) there is a very distinct use of the words natural (physin) and unnatural (para-physin)...
Let's look at that quickly...
Significant to Paul’s discussion in Romans 1:27 is the fact that these "unclean" Gentiles exchanged that which was "natural" for them (physin - in the Greek text), for something "unnatural" (para physin).
According to Romans 11:24, Paul says that GOD Almighty acts in an "unnatural" way, (para physin), to accept the Gentiles into the fold.
"Unnatural" in these passages does not refer to a violation of the so-called "laws of nature", but it rather implies action contradicting one’s own innate nature.
In view of this, we should observe that it is "unnatural" (para physin) for a person today that is same-sex attracted to attempt living in a heterosexual lifestyle or relationship.
The message here... The Scripture doesn't condemn same-sex attraction or same-sex relationships any more than it condemns opposite-sex attraction or opposite-sex relationships... but we have a moral compass by which we must walk.
I know that the assault launched on same-sex attracted individuals caused them to run off and form their own group (cult) that rebelled against everything good, natural and moral. I also know that same-sex attracted individuals were then forced into hiding. It is this going into hiding that began the secretive sexual encounters in public bathrooms, parks, wooded areas, etc... being gay became some type of dark dirty secret. It became something that was based on sexual encounters and satisfying the lusts of the flesh.
It is very possible to be in a monogamous relationship and bring Glory to GOD by walking in The Way, living morally and righteously... and it doesn't matter if that is a same-sex couple or an opposite-sex couple.
The low self worth must stop. Respect yourself and your body. Sex is supposed to be beautiful and meaningful, not random and dangerous.
Just sayin... <3 with #LOVE <3