I am sure that I upset many this morning with my response to a blog entry from a parent of a young man that is suffering from a mental disorder known as Gender Dysphoria. I am NOT sorry for exposing Truth and just doing my best to keep it real. This was not an attack on parents, but on the lies and emotional selfishness being passed on by organizations that are putting the parents thoughts & feelings above the actual attack on the children's mental, emotional, medical, physical and spiritual well-being!!
The blog entry came from a sub-stack (or whatever they're called) called PITT - Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans. Well, I added my own Inconvenient Truth about Parents vs UNparents.
This is my comment... I will add the link for the entry at the end of this blog entry... after reading the blog entry 3 or 4 times I commented...
This is very moving... and as an EX-trans-identified "woman" of 20+ years I say Never Lose Hope!! While this is touching, true and very courageous... there are a few things that really MUST be addressed. I may be seen as the bad guy here... but that's okay, I can handle that.
"Our story is basically the same as other parents' stories of their child's transition whether it started when the child was 8, 18 or 28" - NOT SO. At age 18 or 28 there is nothing a parent can do to stop or fight against the whole transing process. Ate age 8??!!!!?! There IS!!
There is NO EXCUSE for allowing a child, under age 18, to transition... even with threat of removal! It is either you comply to the trans-queer-gender ideology or we remove your child! If you take part... IT IS SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY AND MEDICALLY taking part in the medicalization and emotional turmoil of your child! Plain & Simple.
"parents doing the mental and emotional gymnastics required in their situations, to support their child, while also trying to protect and defend them." - NOT SO. These "mental and emotional gymnastics" are NOT REQUIRED!!! There is a HUGE difference in "supporting" them and "protecting and defending" them!!! Protecting & Defending Means There Will Be NO Transition As Far As It Can Be Taken In The Battle!! Even If It Means Removal of The Child!!! Supporting them in a mental illness that NEEDS treatment NOT encouragement, healing NOT hormones is borderline being an UNparent.
ANY parent that supports the transitioning of a child FOR ANY REASON is an UNparent! I know, that is cruel David... mean and not very caring or Christian-like!! Waaaaa Waaaa IT IS TRUTH and REALITY!! Especially when it is done for selfish reasons of maintaining a relationship!
"As a parent, you are damned if you do and damned if you don't." - NOT SO. As a parent you are doing the right thing IF YOU DON'T!!! As a parent you are doing the WRONG thing IF YOU DO. Simple! If some parents weren't so worried about what anyone thinks or feels about their decisions to PROTECT their children, there wouldn't be so much compromise!
"if we do not completely support our sons’ decision to transition, then they will commit suicide." - SO WHAT IF THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE TOLD.... as a parent this must be researched and proven before taken at it's word! What is wrong with people??? Do they not have technology at their fingertips to find out if this stuff is true or not?!?!?! Yes, they do! And shame on them for not doing it!!! This is not something one should be satisfied with finding one or two POV's but very IN-DEPTH RESEARCH, STUDY AND CONTACTING MUST BE DONE!!!
I get contacted by parents MANY times a month... Why??? Because they want to hear from those who have stopped taking part in that deathstyle!!! They want to actually HELP their child at any cost of social or emotional angst!!! Because they truly care about their child and NOT about their own thoughts, feelings or reputation!! They aren't trying to save their "family name" but their child! Because they want to find those who have come out of that delusion of mental anguish and be encouraged by the facts that there is Hope and especially from someone they KNOW will not bite their tongue or worry about offending them!
Those PARENTS, unlike the UNparents, are seeking people that aren't in it to win it or in it for profit!!! Like the many organizations. or businesses, that exist and pretend to take the parents "thoughts & feelings" into consideration ABOVE the child's best interests and welfare!! Hmph!
I am going to end because I know many are upset with me right now. That's okay. I can handle it. I don't read replies/responses to comments so its all good... let em rip!
I end with this... because I COULD go on... ANY PARENT that compromises in ANY WAY... misgendering (ie: calling their son their daughter or vice versa) or not calling their child by their birthname... compromising just to have a relationship... has given their seal of approval on their child's emotional, mental, medical, physical and spiritual death!
I spent the day with a young man that attempted to take his life and his family the other day. The boy had Hope that nobody had seen after I left... not because I am special or need a pat on the back... but because I kept it real with him and was able to tell him all about him and his emotional turmoil JUST BY TELLING HIM ABOUT ME AND MY OWN TURMOIL!!!
I am NOT attacking. I am Exposing!
This Is The Link For The Entry - https://pitt.substack.com/p/behind-the-curtain-the-reality-of?s=r
The blog entry came from a sub-stack (or whatever they're called) called PITT - Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans. Well, I added my own Inconvenient Truth about Parents vs UNparents.
This is my comment... I will add the link for the entry at the end of this blog entry... after reading the blog entry 3 or 4 times I commented...
This is very moving... and as an EX-trans-identified "woman" of 20+ years I say Never Lose Hope!! While this is touching, true and very courageous... there are a few things that really MUST be addressed. I may be seen as the bad guy here... but that's okay, I can handle that.
"Our story is basically the same as other parents' stories of their child's transition whether it started when the child was 8, 18 or 28" - NOT SO. At age 18 or 28 there is nothing a parent can do to stop or fight against the whole transing process. Ate age 8??!!!!?! There IS!!
There is NO EXCUSE for allowing a child, under age 18, to transition... even with threat of removal! It is either you comply to the trans-queer-gender ideology or we remove your child! If you take part... IT IS SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY AND MEDICALLY taking part in the medicalization and emotional turmoil of your child! Plain & Simple.
"parents doing the mental and emotional gymnastics required in their situations, to support their child, while also trying to protect and defend them." - NOT SO. These "mental and emotional gymnastics" are NOT REQUIRED!!! There is a HUGE difference in "supporting" them and "protecting and defending" them!!! Protecting & Defending Means There Will Be NO Transition As Far As It Can Be Taken In The Battle!! Even If It Means Removal of The Child!!! Supporting them in a mental illness that NEEDS treatment NOT encouragement, healing NOT hormones is borderline being an UNparent.
ANY parent that supports the transitioning of a child FOR ANY REASON is an UNparent! I know, that is cruel David... mean and not very caring or Christian-like!! Waaaaa Waaaa IT IS TRUTH and REALITY!! Especially when it is done for selfish reasons of maintaining a relationship!
"As a parent, you are damned if you do and damned if you don't." - NOT SO. As a parent you are doing the right thing IF YOU DON'T!!! As a parent you are doing the WRONG thing IF YOU DO. Simple! If some parents weren't so worried about what anyone thinks or feels about their decisions to PROTECT their children, there wouldn't be so much compromise!
"if we do not completely support our sons’ decision to transition, then they will commit suicide." - SO WHAT IF THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE TOLD.... as a parent this must be researched and proven before taken at it's word! What is wrong with people??? Do they not have technology at their fingertips to find out if this stuff is true or not?!?!?! Yes, they do! And shame on them for not doing it!!! This is not something one should be satisfied with finding one or two POV's but very IN-DEPTH RESEARCH, STUDY AND CONTACTING MUST BE DONE!!!
I get contacted by parents MANY times a month... Why??? Because they want to hear from those who have stopped taking part in that deathstyle!!! They want to actually HELP their child at any cost of social or emotional angst!!! Because they truly care about their child and NOT about their own thoughts, feelings or reputation!! They aren't trying to save their "family name" but their child! Because they want to find those who have come out of that delusion of mental anguish and be encouraged by the facts that there is Hope and especially from someone they KNOW will not bite their tongue or worry about offending them!
Those PARENTS, unlike the UNparents, are seeking people that aren't in it to win it or in it for profit!!! Like the many organizations. or businesses, that exist and pretend to take the parents "thoughts & feelings" into consideration ABOVE the child's best interests and welfare!! Hmph!
I am going to end because I know many are upset with me right now. That's okay. I can handle it. I don't read replies/responses to comments so its all good... let em rip!
I end with this... because I COULD go on... ANY PARENT that compromises in ANY WAY... misgendering (ie: calling their son their daughter or vice versa) or not calling their child by their birthname... compromising just to have a relationship... has given their seal of approval on their child's emotional, mental, medical, physical and spiritual death!
I spent the day with a young man that attempted to take his life and his family the other day. The boy had Hope that nobody had seen after I left... not because I am special or need a pat on the back... but because I kept it real with him and was able to tell him all about him and his emotional turmoil JUST BY TELLING HIM ABOUT ME AND MY OWN TURMOIL!!!
I am NOT attacking. I am Exposing!
This Is The Link For The Entry - https://pitt.substack.com/p/behind-the-curtain-the-reality-of?s=r