If you are someone, Christian or not, who has fallen into fornication, adultery, pornography, homosexuality, bestiality, or any other sexually deviant behavior, then your main focus should be to stop.
You need to repent and confess your sins to The LORD and break off your relationships that lead you or tempt you into further sin. And I know that this is not easy to hear, but it is what is necessary and true.
The sexual drive is a very powerful one. It is so strong that it can alter a person's thinking and emotions.
It can harden the heart and move us to irrational and sinful decisions.
Regardless of what is being taught and preached now, GOD Created sex for the marriage bed and for there alone. HE wants you to be pure in mind and body, reserving the sexual union for the proper context of marriage so that you might properly honor GOD and your spouse.
If you fail to do this you’re committing serious and very significant sin. Don't give up and throw in the towel because all is not lost.
There is Forgiveness in JESUS CHRIST!!
All of your sexual sins can be forgiven.
The blood of JESUS The CHRIST is too great to be defeated by your sin.
JESUS paid a great price on the Cross (1Peter 2:24). HE shed HIS blood and gave HIS life as a propitiation for our sin, and if you are a Christian, then you have been bought with a great price.
You are not your own and The LORD always longs to fellowship with you (1Corinthians 1:9). All you need to know is that you must confess your sin to GOD and repent of it.
This means you stop doing it. You don’t keep asking for forgiveness for the same thing because you don’t want to put forth the action and effort to take control and to control yourself.
Repentance is not an out of jail for free card! When you stop what you are doing and you become the living sacrifice, warring with your flesh and this ole world, then you gain strength with each battle won.
If you stumble…. not when, but IF!!! Then you can come to GOD and beg HIM for Forgiveness. Lay it at HIS Feet. Give it all to HIM. Take it to The Cross.
HE is a burden bearer, a heavy load sharer. Let him bear your burdens and share your heavy loads!
You are called by GOD to purity, not to sexual immorality.
1Corinthians 6:18, "18 Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body."
Ephesians 5:3, " 3 But immorality or any impurity or greed must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints"
Colossians 3:5, " 5 Therefore consider the members of your earthly body as dead to immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry."
1Thessalonians 4:2-5, "2 For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. 3 For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality; 4 that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, 5 not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God."
So, you can see that GOD desires your Holiness. After all, this is why you are, or have become, a Child of The One True Living GOD, to honor, Glorify, and live for HIM.
So, I repeat, if you are in sexual sin, stop, repent, confess it to GOD, confess it to others, break off any tempting relationships and situations, and seek JESUS, as well as your brethren for support and accountability.
If you stumble along the way, then take it to The Cross and repent and confess and seek and share. Don’t give up. Never think that The LORD JESUS will stop Loving you. Never doubt HIM. HE does Love you and HE knows your struggle.
For HE has been tempted in any & all ways any of us could ever possibly be!